WNRS (Intimacy Expansion)

what was your first impression of me? what do you think of me now?

describe our first kiss

when did you know you wanted to pursue a relationship with me?

what do I do that turns you on?

how do you like to be touched?

what makes you feel special?

what are your needs in a relationship?

have you ever broken someone's heart? have you ever had your heart broken?

have you ever said "I love you" without meaning it?

how many times have you been in love?

what makes you feel sexy?

describe the first time we had sex

when do you know you're in love?

what is your love language to give vs receive?

how do you deal with relational conflict?

describe your ideal date

what are your favorite physical characteristics of mine?

what are your biggest relationship fears?

what do you think our life together will look like in a year? five years?

would you rather relive your worst heartbreak or erase them from your memory?

what were some of the most important lessons you've learned in your past relationships?

what's something you wish you understood more about me?

what instantly makes someone attractive?

what sex position is overrated? explain.

what do you always get in your head about when being physically intimate?

what's your favorite kind of forplay?

what about your sexuality are you still learning to embrace?

what are you still trying to unlearn about sex?

give our sex life an honest yelp review

how do you like to communicate about sex or during sex?

what is your favorite sex position? why?

are you friends with any of your exes?

name one thing better than sex

how do you like to communicate?

describe your relationship history

admit something

what song feels like falling in love for the first time?

what's the best lesson an ex has ever taught you?

what's something you wish you were better at in a relationship?

what do you think the hardest part about dating you is?

what do you now understand about love that you didn't before?

are you avoiding any hard conversations right now?

how do you maintain a healthy relationship with yourself while you're dating?

what can I help you with?

how do I make you feel loved? what can I do better?

what's something you wish I understood about you better?

how can I support you?

what's the hardest part about dating me?

if you had to give our relationship a movie title what would it be?

what do you enjoy doing with me the most?

what about me do you find sexy?

what are your favorite personality characteristics of mine?

what's the biggest fight you've ever been in? what went down?

what would make you feel closer to me?

what are three things you bring to a relationship?

what makes you feel comfortable to be vulnerable?

what do you wish we did more of together?

have I ever hurt you? how can I make it up to you?

what are your favorite things about me?

what's something you've wanted to ask me but never had the courage?

what's the worst thing an ex would have to say about you?

what's something we've never done that you want to do with me?

what is your favorite memory of the two of us?

what is the worst date you've ever been on?

do you have any kinks or fetishes?

what draws you to people?

who was your first love?

what are your sexual fantasies?

how would you define a good relationship?

in what ways do you think we're most compatible?

was there anything that surprised you about me as we started getting to know each other more?

are there any patterns that have been revealed in your past relationships, and do you see that happening with us? are there ways we can avoid or resolve them?

what boundaries do you have with your family and friends?

what are the biggest red flags you watch out for? green flags?

in what ways do I bring out the best in you?

what do you think about when having sex?

what are your relationship dealbreakers?

what parts of our relationship do you think we need to work on?

what are your romantic relationship boundaries?

what is your toxic trait?

when do you think sex is over?

what makes you feel confident in bed?

what makes you feel emotionally safe in a relationship? what can I do better?

what are your relationship triggers?

what is your attachment style? how does that show up in your relationship with others (family, friends, partners)?

what are your icks or turn offs?

what are your least favorite characteristics of mine? are there ways I can work on them?

how do you deal with conflict?

are you able to apologize and take ownership for mistakes easily or is it difficult for you? what do you think is a proper apology?

what are your priorities in life?

how do you communicate your boundaries and limitations?

how do you communicate when I've hurt you?

what are your favorite compliments to receive?

what makes you feel truly seen and understood?

what do you think I don't understand about you?

who in your life is most important for me to get along with?

what do you think is innocent flirting? what are your boundaries around that?

what did you not hear enough in your last relationship that you'd like to hear more in our relationship?

what is something that could be an issue in our relationship? what can we do to solve or avoid this?

what are your goals for the future?

what relationships have been the most damaging for you? how have you healed or how are you healing from them?

what do you do to unwind or destress?

how do you process your emotions?

how do you ask someone to take accountability?

what relationship are you trying to or would like to repair right now? how are you/can you go about that?

what are you biggest pet peeves?

what makes you feel angry or frustrated?

what makes you feel sad or upset?

what makes you feel disappointed or let down?

what makes you feel abandoned or unseen?

how often do you like to check in with our relationship? what will that look like? what boundaries do we need to make it a safe and open space to voice our thoughts and feelings?

what characteristics or traits in yourself do you want to work on? how will you do that?

how much alone time do you like? what hobbies or activities do you only like to do alone?

what similarities in us do you like? what differences between us do you like?

what are your biggest strengths? weaknesses?

what are your values in life? in relationships?

what are your biggest insecurities?

what was the hardest thing you've been though?

how would you describe me to a stranger?

how would you describe yourself to a stranger?

what are the most important parts of your identity?

which year of your life was your favorite?

what makes you the happiest?

what or who pushes you to grow?

what is your best memory?

what emotion do you like feeling the best?

what makes you feel connected to a person?

who are your best friends? describe them.

what makes you feel like the truest version of yourself?

what do you think is the best way to breakup with someone?

if someone cheated on you, would you rather they confess and work through it together, or keep it to themselves and commit to never doing it again?

what do you want your life to look like in 10 years?

what attracts you to me?

how do you like emotional or physical intimacy to be initiated?

what are you sexual fantasies? can we do any of them?

what are you proud of me for?

do you get jealous easily?

have you ever cheated? have you ever been cheated on? what do you define as cheating?

TW: do you have any past sexual trauma? how can I make physical intimacy feel safe for you?

how often should we ask for consent when we're physically intimate?

what about me is the most interesting?

what are your favorite quirks of mine?

what attracted to me when we first met? what attracts you to me now?

what do you admire about me?

do I give you butterflies?

what do you think is the most interesting part of my life?

what part of my life do you want to know more about?

are there any things in our relationship that make you feel jealous or insecure? how can we handle these things?

what are your boundaries or preferences when it comes to sharing information about our relationship with friends or family?

what are your thoughts about monogamy, polyamory, or non-monagamy? what do you want our relationship to be in this respect?

are there any challenges we've faced together that have made our bond stronger? how have we successfully navigated those obstacles?

how can we continue to nurture our relationship and ensure that we're growing together rather than apart?

what are some new experiences, hobbies, or adventures you'd like to share together in the future to keep our relationship fun and dynamic?

in what ways can we improve our communication and understanding of each other's needs and desires?

what are some of your favorite memories from our time together? which experiences have been the most meaningful to you?

as we've grown together, how do you think our relationship has evolved? are there any significant turning points that stand out to you?

what do you appreciate most about our partnership? what are some qualities that you believe make our relationship strong and unique?

how have we influenced and supported each other's personal growth? in what ways have we helped each other become better individuals? what else can we do to foster this growth?

what do you think is the best way to break up with someone?